Toxic culture is a misalignment between stated values and principles versus evidenced behaviors and character traits. If a group of people choose a particular set of values and live by them, then their internal culture flourishes. An external observer’s disagreement with a set of stated values however, is a different socio-humanitarian topic.
Typically, three behaviors give rise to a toxic culture:
Signs of a toxic organizational culture:
Simply being pleasant and agreeable, or an environment of ‘niceness’ is a limiting way of regulating organizational culture. Such ‘niceness’ is often just a veneer of civility, a mere nod to psychological safety, which falsely signals inclusion, collaboration and high performance. Team environments need to be mature, which means being open to tough conversations and having effective conflict resolution patterns.
A collegial and respectful environment is an outcome of a healthy culture. It should not result from tolerance of toxic behaviors such as avoidance of difficult conversations, passive-aggressive behaviors, inability to hold people accountable, or keeping the peace through tribalism.
The risk of distorting reality is the primary threat to culture. This occurs when niceness is ranked higher among desirable behaviors. Leaders are the ultimate recipients of reality check issues :
Anecdotal evidence suggests that niceness can mutate into inability to challenge people, both vertically and horizontally. Managing up is one of the typical negative behaviors, but similar happens within teams also.
“You know you’re in a toxic environment when... People use the word ‘fairness,’ when in reality, managing the appearance of fairness becomes the job.” ― Richie Norton
A necessary safeguard against this toxic pattern is to explore and measure what you do not know, and to test if what you do know is true. Radical transparency and psychological safety are the best patterns for ensuring reality checks are never compromised.
Manifestation of toxicity through a mismatch between stated values and actual behaviors is not unusual. Let’s face it - humans are fallible by nature. It would be pretentious (inherently toxic) for any individual, team or organization to pretend to be infallible all the time.
Organizations that are prepared to be transparent about rusty or inefficient pipelines earn the badge of being thought of as authentic by both employees and partners.
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self” – Ernest Hemingway.
To think of authenticity as a soft quality is a serious mistake. Authenticity is measurable and therefore can be a real driver for efficiency, as well as cultural change.
Evidence of a healthy organizational culture:
Reality checking and authenticity are about systematic recognition of issues and timely adjustment. Radical transparency is the best approach because it keeps leaders and teams honest, and helps avoid the Dead Horse scenarios.
Learn more about the measurable and psychologically safe
transparency approach provided by the Neelix Employee Engagement platform.
Martin Luther King Jr. said in his famous Letter from Birmingham Jail “…there is a type of constructive, nonviolent tension which is necessary for growth.” Don’t cover that up in your efforts to be nice. Channel and manage the tension. That’s real kindness."